GOD IS ALWAYS GOOD
God is always good. He always wants to do good things for you. If the situation is killing, stealing, and destroying it is not from God. There are two forces in this world, good and bad. God and our enemy, the devil. It is that simple, it is not complicated. Jesus said he came to give you life and life more abundantly. (John 3:16)
God does not have any bad in him, so he cannot do anything bad to you. God is love. When a situation gets you down, it is not God doing it.
Take your stand against the enemy and stand on the Word of God to get out of it. There is life in the Word of God, and the goodness of God will change your life as you allow His Word to minister life to you.
God leads you by your spirit and not by outside circumstances. The children of God are led by the Spirit of God. God's desire is to bless you. Read his Word, seek him in prayer, so he can enlighten you and direct your path towards the answers you need.
My friend, believe that God is good, that he is not doing anything bad to you to teach you something. If you have the least bit of doubt it will hinder your faith and stop you from receiving. God uses His Word to teach you, not evil.
Remember if it is good it is from God if it is bad it is the devil, it is really that simple!